Perception and Reality

In order that we effectively communicate with another person it is important that we understand a simple principal. This is simply that:

“For each individual – their perception IS their REALITY”

What is the significance of this principal – simply this. No matter what you say or do for anyone, their perception on life is their reality and everything that you say or do that does not agree with this will result in conflict at some level or another.

There is one exception however – for those who accept that their reality may not be entirely true; or that if that person is at a place in their lives where they accept that whatever views they have – such views are based on their own experiences and that their view may not be the only view. Now this is a rare state for most people to be in and is certainly one that I feel most of us should aspire to – a state of complete acceptance in the belief that whatever we are is a result of our past conditioning and subject to the relevance of that conditioning. Our perception on life may hold varying levels of significance to not only ourselves but to those around us or who form part of our lives.

So how do we come to this point? Quite simply it is all a result of those events that have occurred in our life. It is those events and how we as individuals interpret them that give us cause to form our beliefs. Now that is the short answer to the question. In fact the path we take is a little more involved...

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